Means of Grace, Hope of Glory

Thursday
Apr232020

Endures all things

This I command you, to love one another. John 15:17

We are not only to persevere and endure in this time of trial. We are to follow the way of the Christ, who in his time of suffering, in his endurance—loved. Loved those near at hand, loved the entire creation. His resurrection is in one sense a magnification and a full expression of that love that we saw in his life and upon the cross.

The people, things and circumstances of my life are different from what they were six weeks ago. Endurance and love have taken a changed pathway. Judy, my sister-in-law is more frequently present in emails, Michelle and I say Wednesday Evening Prayer on Zoom rather than in person, and on my rare times in the drug and grocery stores I now see the clerks as brave. When I pray for the people on today’s page in my blue intercession book I stop and send them a message. In taking my walk each day, I pass others, some in mask, some not—and need to set aside judgments toward those not engaging the practice I have taken on. At 8:00 each evening I hear the yelling and screaming of young people from their balconies and search to find compassion toward their annoying noise. And I notice how a particular icon on the wall draws my attention and prayer.

The Promise taken by Professed Members and Associates in the Order of the Ascension is

To seek the presence of Jesus Christ in the people, things and circumstances of life through stability, obedience and conversion of life.

Benedict bids me to “Listen carefully … with the ear of your heart.”  He’s just reminding me of the Holy Spirit’s inner nudges. If I stay with the stability of prayer and relationship, if I listen from within the love of Christ, then new ways will open themselves to me. I see and hear differently. The things, people and circumstances will offer new opportunities to repent, to intercess, to love.

Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

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Postings on the inner life and the virus

You know, and they know, that they are offering their lives      

Intercessions and the virus  

Solitude

The mystery of the cross

Solitude in Surrey 

We'll meet again

God's not indifferent to our pain 

Endures all things

Becoming an Associate of a Religious Order

People Touch

Spiritual vitality and authenticity 

The path of servanthood

Down into the mess

Missing the Eucharist 

In you we live

Faith to perceive

Faith to perceive: In your great compassion  

Turn everything that happens to account

We no longer know what to do

 

Postings on Parish Development during the Virus

Power from the center pervades the whole 

To everything there is a season

Faith to perceive: Remaining inseparable

Monday
Apr202020

To everything there is a season: Parish Development during the Virus

 

Here in Seattle

The last public Eucharist was March 8

Mass gathering restrictions March 11

Stay at home March 23

 

What if this goes on and on?

The signs on California Avenue business doors are like this – “The shop will be CLOSED till April 1, 2020” The date now crossed out and “until further notice” written in. An “essential business” sign said, “No more than 10 people in the showroom.” Now the 10 is crossed out and replaced with a 2.

Things have evolved. Maybe they will continue to evolve. 

 

The year ahead 

This is from an article in today’s New York Times, “The Coronavirus in America: The Year Ahead:”    Also, a NewsHour report on the article.

“In truth, it is not clear to anyone where this crisis is leading us. More than 20 experts in public health, medicine, epidemiology and history shared their thoughts on the future during in-depth interviews. When can we emerge from our homes? How long, realistically, before we have a treatment or vaccine? How will we keep the virus at bay?…

“We face a doleful future,” said Dr. Harvey V. Fineberg, a former president of the National Academy of Medicine.

He and others foresaw an unhappy population trapped indoors for months, with the most vulnerable possibly quarantined for far longer. They worried that a vaccine would initially elude scientists, that weary citizens would abandon restrictions despite the risks, that the virus would be with us from now on.

Our primary “take-away” from this article is something we already knew but didn’t want to fully acknowledge—until there is a cure, a good treatment, and a vaccine, the church will be unable to gather in ways it is accustomed to. This takes on more significance given that our membership is older and more vulnerable. 

Given what we know now, and what we have experienced, what kind of strategic thinking and action is needed? What are we to do if this goes on and on? What if the church is unable to return to its normal practices for the next 18 months?

We’ll need to consider how our ascetical, pastoral, and liturgical ways need to be lived if this goes on and on.

 

Initial thoughts on the process of how we engage one another

Listen and take counsel

We've had almost two months of experience with this new season. It's time to see what we can learn. It's time for disciplined reflection and learning. It will take a bit of humility. Parish clergy and lay leaders have done their best. As we open ourselves to hearing the collective voice of the parish there will be things we don't want to hear. Probably a lot of praise too. Now's the time to listen and take counsel. And once we've done that--we need to do it again, from time to time, in the coming months.

1) Let the data speak

Regular assessments of parish life and ministry are always crucial for parish health. When we are scattered, and unable to engage the practices that have fed us, it is even more important.  “Let the data speak,” is a phrase used by some organization development practitioners. It means that in the process of assessing our life and work we need to trust the community to interpret the information that has been gathered. When we engage in any form of data gathering and analysis we have an obligation to fully share the results and our analysis with the congregation. Few things catch people’s attention as much as coming up against what they have said about themselves as a community or vestry or committee. This will create pressures and expectations in the parish as the information has a catalytic effect in organizational change. If we are to hear God, the society we live in, one another, and ourselves the parish needs structures, processes and a climate for listening. If the data is to “speak” the parish needs to be a listening community that nurtures listening people.

2) Appreciative stance.

You want to make use of assessments that identify strengths and weaknesses, opportunities and threats, we face during this situation. And, you want to tilt your attention to the strengths and opportunities. Take a generally appreciative stance while being open and direct about problems and failures.  Ask questions along these lines: during the past couple of months--Where have we seen the parish’s strengths and gifts; especially those that have long been part of our life?  What have been the high points in the life of the parish? What has worked well in the past few weeks ? What has the parish done really well over a period of time? What has reinforced and grounded us in Anglican ethos and culture?

3) Take counsel with the seniors

Consult with some of the more apostolic, experienced, and strategic members. As individuals or in groups. Be broad on the processes of assessment while making use of “the wise ones.”

4) Give yourself to transparency

We can learn from how many state governors have approached leadership during the virus. Governor Cuomo’s press briefings have earned praise—efficient, adult, direct and blunt, factual, personal, emotional intelligence in the expression and management of feelings, and empathetic. If you want a model for communicating “out” to the parish spend an hour listening to one of his daily briefings and read a couple of reviews on the briefings. Take special care to be open about finances, participation levels, and whether there are cases of the virus among parishioners. Share how you are making decisions about worship, pastoral care and formation.

Pastoral necessity

Be open to experimentation, even experimentation that we initially find silly, offensive, or wrongheaded.  Things will sort themselves out as long as we have ways of reflecting upon our experience and learning from that. During a time of increased anxiety leaders may be tempted to shut down the anxiety by excessive control, or more rarely, excessive inclusion and experimentation. For example, you may have noticed the hierarchy’s and academic community’s reaction to various ways in which parish priests have tried to provide Eucharistic nurture—the rubrics of ancient Prayer Books are invoked, canons are noted, theological rational offered, and all sorts of possible (if not probable) problems raised. The Roman Catholics have the notion of pastoral necessity within their canons. Maybe we might make use of that phrase—pastoral necessity. If we knew that our inability to gather was just a matter of two or three months—it might be perfectly reasonable to ask priests to stay with the normative practices. But if we are going to be dealing with this situation for the next 18 months—how about more pastoral necessity on the part of the parish priest!

Fantasizing a future 

We suggest spending little time on speculation about the long-term effects for the church. We’re not saying don’t do it or listen to it. But keep it in proportion and in perspective. The task before us now is how we are to respond to what we are currently facing. How to live now. What ascetical, pastoral, oversight, and liturgical practices are needed for this strange time in our life? The future will come soon enough. 

Leadership

A recent book review by Jon Meacham titled “Great Leadership in Times of Crisis,” quotes John F. Kennedy about the Cuban Missile Crisis and Franklin D. Roosevelt about the path forward during the Great Depression. In both cases, these leaders are forced to tell frightening truths and to also chart a way forward.  Given the tendency we may have to let our religion venture too often into sentimentality, helping parishioners cope with the facts while retaining hope can be daunting. Facing the facts ourselves, and reflecting carefully on our own ways of grounding is critical as we try to help others.

“And, when it was time to go public, [Kennedy] trusted the people. There was no happy talk, no mixed messages, no self-pity. ‘My fellow citizens,’ Kennedy told the nation six days into the crisis, ‘let no one doubt that this is a difficult and dangerous effort on which we have set out. No one can foresee precisely what course it will take or what costs or casualties will be incurred. Many months of sacrifice and self-discipline lie ahead—months in which both our patience and our will be tested…’ “

The Church knows something about sacrifice and self-discipline. The Church knows something about hope in the midst of suffering.  And we are better able to live what we know when we avoid happy talk, mixed messages, and self-pity, despite the illusory comfort they offer.

 

Initial thoughts on the process of how we stay focused on our identity and mission 

 

A broad framework rooted in our tradition 

As we consider parish life during the virus we want to stay connected to our own “best”, our Anglican ethos. It’s a matter of figuring out how to live that in these circumstances.

For example, there are the four core frameworks used in the Church Development Institute. A PDF   How does each operate during this time of the virus? How might we strengthen each dynamic?

Renewal-Apostolate: the task is to renew people in their baptismal identity and purpose and send them, in Christ, for an apostolate in family, with friends, in work, civic life and church.

Shape of the Parish: The task is to nurture the Christian life of people at all phases of maturity; give special attention to guiding and equipping those of Apostolic Faith; encourages all toward a more prayerful, disciplined, and compassionate Christian life.

Christian Life Model: The task is to foster a strong life and ministry of worship, doctrine, action and oversight.

Benedictine Promise: The task is to enable people to seek the presence of Jesus Christ in the people, things and circumstances of life, through stability, conversion of life and obedience 

Another model that could serve the same function is “In Your Holy Spirit” with its five elements: Eucharist and Daily Office, community and reflection, and service.  A PDF 

Attention to the three purposes of every parish church

We think that for every parish there is an interdependent three-fold action. During the virus how each is expressed will be different from our normal practice. That said, it may be useful for parish leaders to contemplate how each is being expressed now and to seek ways to improve.

First, the parish exists to worship God—for adoration, reverence, devotion, and love.

Second, the parish exists to form the people of God as instruments of God’s love.

Third, the parish is called to a responsible, sanctifying presence in relationship to various external communities. In most cases that’s a geographical region, a neighborhood or town, closer to the traditional sense of “parish.” In some cases, it’s an external community in some relationship to the parish, such as the performing arts, medical practitioners, the homeless.

A new season

This is a new season in our common life. We are given the holy work of discerning and living the pathways of grace in these times.

To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 King James Version (KJV) 

Turn, Turn, Turn - Judy Collins and Pete Seeger    It’s a lovely piece of singing by two of our favorite people. 

Michelle Heyne, OA & Robert Gallagher, OA

 

Monday
Apr132020

God's not indifferent to our pain

Today's news includes -
A sailor from the USS Theodore Roosevelt died
3,300 deaths in US nursing homes
New York City's death's topped 10,000
USA deaths 23,485
In the world 119,212 deaths

 

I'm a bit embarrassed to admit this. I've been watching Grey's Anatomy. Yes, the show about brilliant surgeons with little ability to manage their emotions. Sometimes it's background noise. Sometimes I follow the story. On occasion I find something helpful.

 

The rabbi says, "God's not indifferent to our pain."

 


It includes this -

Eli: ‘You know, it's human nature. You face enough hardship, then you can't help but think that you're being punished, that you did something to deserve it.
April: ‘I did nothing to deserve- My whole life, I followed His rules. I studied, I believed, I practiced what I preached. I did every single thing He asked of me.’

Eli: ‘And that guarantees you what?’
April: ‘Excuse me?’

Eli: ‘Well, where is the guarantee? In the sequel? 'Cause, I have to admit, I'm not as up on that as I used to be. No, no, where is it written exactly that if you do this or that, that everything in your life's gonna be good, hmm? Nowhere, in any faith, is there a guarantee.’
April: ‘I'm not asking for everything to be good all the time. But fair I think that I –

Eli: ‘Fair? Was it fair when Isaac went blind and then his child betrayed him? And where was the fairness when Sara had to wait 99 years before she had a child, and God said, "Sacrifice him"? And Moses couldn't even get past the bouncer to the Promised Land. And like I said, I'm not up on the sequel, but from what I hear, Jesus got a raw deal. Nobody in the Bible lived a life free of suffering or injustice, or it wouldn't have been a best seller. And if they lived lives like that, why should ours be different? Now, if people only believed in God when things were good, I guarantee you, after the Holocaust, not a single Jew would be a believer. […]Faith wouldn't be real faith if you only believe when things are good. Well, so, what? The world is just cruel and random, and there's nothing anyone can do about it? Terrible things happen. Terrible, wonderful, devastating things happen. Who the hell are you to know why? Who are you to know why some people live and some people die?’    Season 14, Ep. 17

 

Jesus got a raw deal

 

The Resurrection doesn't change that. The "raw deal" remains unjust, unfair, unreasonable.

 

There's the Cross. There's the Resurrection. We get both. 

 

Reflections:

 

Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. (Hebrews 11:1)

and it is no longer I who live, but it is Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. (Galatians:2:20)

 

By faith Abraham obeyed when he was called to set out for a place that he was to receive as an inheritance; and he set out, not knowing where he was going. ... By faith the people passed through the Red Sea as if it were dry land ... Others were tortured, refusing to accept release, in order to obtain a better resurrection. Others suffered mocking and flogging, and even chains and imprisonment. They were stoned to death, they were sawn in two, they were killed by the sword; they went about in skins of sheep and goats, destitute, persecuted, tormented— of whom the world was not worthy. They wandered in deserts and mountains, and in caves and holes in the ground. Yet all these, though they were commended for their faith, did not receive what was promised, since God had provided something better so that they would not, without us, be made perfect. ... Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight and the sin that clings so closely, and let us run with perseverance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus the pioneer and perfecter of our faith, who for the sake of the joy that was set before him endured the cross, disregarding its shame, and has taken his seat at the right hand of the throne of God.  (from Hebrews 11 and 12)

My brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of any kind, consider it nothing but joy, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance; and let endurance have its full effect, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking in nothing. (James 1:2-4)

 

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Saturday
Apr112020

Fact and Illusion

Fact and Illusion: Holy Saturday in a time of plague 

In Reaching Out, Henri Nouwen writes of the movement from illusion to prayer. It’s a movement from the illusions of control, quick healing, of making idols of our dreams and longings, and from a life of the trivial and sentimental toward a life that longs for reality, an acceptance and patience with all the complexities and uncertainness of life. It is a movement from illusion to prayer, from illusion to reality.

For Charles Williams the redeemed life of the City lies in affirming the good in all facts even when we cannot see the presence of the good. Love takes pleasure in fact; evil is the choosing of illusion. Repentance is "a passionate intention to know all things after the mode of heaven . . . to find right knowledge and perfect freedom together; to know all things as occasions of love.”  Facts are holy. 

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Postings on the inner life and the virus

You know, and they know, that they are offering their lives      

Intercessions and the virus  

Solitude

The mystery of the cross

Solitude in Surrey 

We'll meet again

Fact and Illusion 

God's not indifferent to our pain 

Endures all things

Becoming an Associate of a Religious Order

People Touch

Spiritual vitality and authenticity 

The path of servanthood

Down into the mess

Missing the Eucharist 

In you we live

Faith to perceive

Faith to perceive: In your great compassion  

Turn everything that happens to account

We no longer know what to do

 

Postings on Parish Development during the Virus

Power from the center pervades the whole 

To everything there is a season 

Faith to perceive: Remaining inseparable

 

Monday
Apr062020

We'll meet again

A priest friend told me that some are asking, "where is God in all this?" That set off three thoughts.

 

From P.D. James - 

Emily Wharton: God has gone away ...

Adam Dalgliesh: My father was a parish priest. When I lost my faith he said, “If you find you can no longer believe just act as if you still do. If you feel you can no longer pray just go on saying the words.”    A Taste for Death

 

Second, did you see the Queen's address? Quite good I thought. None of the false optimism based on the assumption that "the leader" knows "where and when" and he will make it so. I’m assuming you know the Queen’s reference in saying “we’ll meet again”. If not you can listen to Vera Lynn sing it.   Our President wants to encourage optimism based on his wisdom about things that he has no control over. The Queen shares what she knows—at some point --“don’t know where, don’t know when” -- we’ll meet again. She doesn’t assume she or anyone else controls it.

 

My friend wrote, "there's this underlying heart beat that I'm not here by all by myself." I think it might have been in the back of my mind when I came across Sara Maitland's writing, "Actually, the idea that most of us are going to be "isolated" is simply untrue. We wake alone in the night and reach out for the light switch - and we are not isolated, we are instantly connected to a whole lot of people who are generating power to enable our solitude. When we turn the tap on, wait for the post, even put on a warmer jersey, we may be alone but we are not isolated; we are part of a huge complex social web. Most of us have telephones - 85 per cent of UK households have a landline - and many of those who do not use a mobile. Many are also connected to the internet and services such as Skype. We are not isolated as people used to be."

 

For me, the issue of God, in this, is bound up with all the above--I just go on saying the words, we'll meet again because nothing can separate us from the love, and we are not here by ourselves. Best I can do for the moment.

 

I hope you are all well and putting on your perseverance and courage.

 

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